So you’ve been Ghosted…Now What?

I have to say, being ghosted sucks so bad. How bad? Donkey sweaty ball bad. So what is the next move after some douchebag decides that you don’t deserve an explanation?


If you haven’t come up with anything, I am right there with you sister! (Or brother!). Other than wanting to immediately find this person and shake them to death as to why they are not calling your awesome self, (I know how could they not want to talk to us right?), we must remember calm thoughts and restraint.


(That illustration above is actually me, by the way, since I have set the standard for “ugly”). But I digress. Remember that you have worth, you are beautiful (says the hypocrite), you are special and worthy of love. Now I know in this modern age people have become so expendable, that all they have to do now is block you everywhere. This includes the dating site, your phone number, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, SnapChat, Whatsapp…….


It’s fucking exhausting. I have to admit I have been the “ghoster” on more than one occasion. But I am the “Casper” ghost. I leave a message indicating why I am making my exit, THEN block. HEY DON’T JUDGE! At least I let them know why they suck at life! Okay maybe that’s mean. But honestly, in order for me to ghost you, you have to really suck at life. Anyway, what’s the point of this post? Oh just a nonsensical ranting I suppose.


Yeah, okay maybe that. Again, DON’T JUDGE! I have to admit this post was inspired by my many “ghosting” suitors but really this post : Wild Exploration (A Ghosting Post) I always like to include a nod to fellow bloggers who inspire me. It’s funny in this day and age one would think that all this technology would HELP us not hold us back. I think as humans we are totally de-evolving and we are forgetting that we need each other, we feel for each other, and that people actually HAVE feelings. So, in saying that we have to remember to be extra careful when dating, because next time you feel like this after texting a guy after a week……

donald duck in love

You can instantly feel like this a week later……


Beware out there ladies and gents! It’s a tough digital world out there!

Stay tuned.


About shatteredwishes

I am in my late-thirties just trying to figure out life in a big city. "When in life you are handed lemons, make a vodka martini." "When I am happy I enjoy the music, but when I am sad I understand the lyrics."
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